FRIENDS

                             F.R.I.E.N.D.S

Friends who are very important in every stage of our life, those are the one who always support us in what so ever precise good things we do and some times in doing some mischievous things. It's actually very difficult to maintain our friends in all stages of our life, not everyone will be that lucky to have all the friends for all the time with them. 

 To be more clear its also important that we have friends who are actually very good person as far as his behavior and life culture is concerned. It's actually our duty that we have friends who are just too good and not anyone who don't care about anything and who even don't have basic ethics. 

When we actually see towards it, a person have many different types of friends like good friends, best friends, mutual friends, business friends and many more. A person enjoys the most with their friends especially during their school and college days, it just counts to be the most joyful movements of our life. 

We now a days be having many friends but we share few secrets with only those particular friends whom we consider as family members and call them as OUR BEST FRIEND FOREVER. We feel it comfortable only to share with those guys who actually care for us and give us the best advice over any problem that we are facing and even always be with us and give us that required support which we actually be needing in that crucial time.

It may sound bad but its very important to test each of our friends because doing this will actually help us to know who is our real friend and who is our fake friend and yes! it will help us to keep our trust on our real friends rather then believing on fake friends and getting betrayed by them. I can tell you one worst thing that can happen in a friendship is getting betrayed by your best friend and this actually hurts. 

Having good friends around you will of-course give you a good company, will obviously help you to grow with a positive attitude as compared to growing with a bad company. I personally feel that the quality of  company or friends you are with actually describes about a person to some extent. Of-course everyone should make friendship with only those who are very good as person rather then making friendship with those who have already worsen their own life and keeping an intention to worsen even our life. Its more better to keep safe distance from such people and avoid them completely. 

Make sure that you give more important to quality of friends rather then quantity of friends because having quality friends is a blessing and not everyone do have this blessing with them. 

Thank You !!

Mistakes !!

                 Mistakes Have To Be Improved !!

Yes, sometimes it happens that we end up doing some mistakes but we don't get to know or we don't realize it, instead we start repenting for committing that mistake rather then knowing how we committed that mistake. It's obvious that no one commits any mistakes purposely or intentionally, those just happen unintentionally. 

It's more important that when ever we commit any mistake, we must make sure that we get to know where we failed and committed that mistake so that we don't commit the same mistake again and again. It sometime happens that how much so ever we try we don't get our mistakes but for this we need to do some thinking work. Yes, of-course we have to think about where exactly we are going wrong. We need to think about our past and find out the solution for our problem because thinking about the mistake is only the way where we can find out the solution to improvise our mistake.

There are many of them who commit a mistake and say sorry, but its actually not that easy.  Yes, of-course saying sorry is the way how we apologize and show the expression of regret. But there are some people who say sorry just for the sake of saying and actually don't mean it. This is what I think is really  very wrong because when you have committed any mistake, make sure that you accept it and see that you apologize and mean it.

Here I have got one idea which may help you to convert your mistakes into right things, that is actually instead of  saying sorry try to fix your mistake and correct it because by doing this there will be no feeling of guilt and regression in you and of-course this will make the front person feel satisfied and happy.

Sometimes we commit mistakes for which just saying sorry is not enough and to our misfortune we can't even fix it and this may also lead to a huge problem where we can hardly find any solution for it. Even there are some people who tend to play with once feelings and hurt them and finally end up saying sorry after hurting their feelings. But of-course this sorry have no meaning because when you make a mistake of hurting someone knowingly and say sorry, of-course this sorry have no meaning at all.

To become a better person see that you don't commit any mistakes, if at all landed up committing any mistakes see that you realize it and know where you actually went wrong and of-course learn from your mistakes, so that you don't land up committing the same mistakes again and again. Yes, it's quite difficult to do so but it's also more important that we don't repeat the same mistakes. At-last I would just like to tell that try to make no mistakes and keep everyone happy around you.

                                          THANK YOU !!

TIME !!

                  IMPORTANCE OF TIME...

Time is one of the most important aspect of our life. But many of us don't take it seriously, I really don't know the reason but actually it's a matter of importance. Time is such an aspect which cannot be explained nor it can be understood. As far as I know we can just utilize time according to our needs, not only this we should also see that we don't waste our precious time doing unproductive things. 

Actually time is not all about following your time-table and doing the things according to it, because it's always not possible to follow the time-table the way you have set it, as sometimes you find it difficult to do all the things or unfortunately you may end up not doing the things even if you are left out with time on that particular day or may be if you get stuck up with things which you have not predicated on that particular day. To be honest instead of doing all these things, we can do one thing when we wake up in the morning that time it-self we have to just make a blue-print of our schedule for complete day and try to follow it and do the things, as time management is one thing all should know and of-course it should be implemented in our life

We usually hear many people saying time does't wait for anyone, yes it's obviously true. Time has nothing to do with who we are and what we are doing, it just goes on and on, not waiting for anybody. Actually there is nothing such as past, present and future because all these things are just imagined in our mind . Its only our brain who assume it to be past, present and future just by overthinking about the past and future and leaving the present, which is actually wrong as we must always be in our present and try to make our present best with which our future will be best and of-course it will not be a matter to think and trouble our-self for no reason. Some things are to be done before time is up, because time is always running and time does not provide us the same chance exactly all over again. 

 As far as I know we must do the things when ever we get a chance, but sometimes we fail doing this and often regret for not doing it. Similarly we often waste our time doing all unproductive things like spending much of our time on our smart phones, watching television an many more things. We actually do all these things and regret about it later, saying that we simply wasted our time on these things, instead we could have done few things which would at-least be productive and helpful for our future. So its time to realize this fact  and make correct decisions for our future, before it becomes too late because sometimes we become helpless and even if we want to convert wrong decision into a right one, we won't be able to do it due to some unavoidable reasons. So make sure that what ever time we get out of our busy schedule do utilize it precisely without letting go any moments as waste.

THANK YOU !!

Addictions

                             Addictions.....

Basically any addictions of any type are dangerous, a person should never have any kind of addiction. It's really important that we avoid getting into any addictions, because once you get into any addiction, it really gets hard to come out it. Basically a person can get into any of the addictions very easily, especially when it comes to the addiction of drugs, alcohol and many more. Actually addiction is nothing but dependence on a particular thing on which they are addicted. 

For a person who goes into some addiction, happening this is too dangerous because that person just get dependent and doesn't keep sense of doing anything. If a person gets in addiction of drugs he/she will not be able to stay a single day without it. It's simply becomes in-possible for them to live without it, they just can't imagine their life without it and of-course it will be dangerous to him and will take him/her to death.

Addictions comes in relationships as well, where both the partners get addicted to each other and just get mad for each other which is actually wrong and this addiction gets turns into possessiveness and worsens the whole relationship and not only  this, it changes the complete behaviour of a person and leads to a break-up in their relationship. So basically addiction is all responsible for this , so its more better to stay away from any person and not allow your self to get addicted to any person in your life. See that you don't be so close to a person that you can't even stay a day without them, because one fine day we all have to get separated and move apart.

Addiction of any thing will not allow a person to live comfortably, it will constantly keep on poking and is as same as torture to some extent in a person's life. A person who is addicted to alcohol he/she can't stay without it, they need it everyday and for this they are even ready to give up everything they have and resulting to cancer and many other deadly diseases. Over all this is nothing but dependence on a particular thing without which he/she feels that their life has no meaning and once this thought gets into their mind then its really very difficult to come out of such addiction.

Now a days even small children are having the addiction of playing video games and playing games on their smart phones. Actually this age, which is actually not for addiction but these children are addicted. This is quite dangerous because, the age which is meant for playing out-door games, the age which is meant to enjoy with friends and make alot of fun are busy handling the smart phones and are not attracted to the outside world. This can even cause eye irritation and may cause some eye problem. 

We can get rid of any addictions, but for this we have to keep patience and have strong determination. Getting rid of any addiction is not a over night job, its actually a time consuming process. We need not go for any medication which is actually of no use unless and until you decide to get rid of that one particular addiction. According to science we can get rid of any addictions in just 21 days, this may be true but it actually depends on the person how long it may take to get rid of it and become a independent person with no more addiction towards anyone or towards anything. 

Life without any addiction is actually more beautiful than life with addiction because addiction means dependence, dependence means restrictions and life with restrictions is misery. So avoid getting into any addictions be independent and enjoy your life to the fullest.  We have this only life so make use of it and give some purpose to your life, so that at the fag end of your life you be happy for what you have done in your life. 

PARENT'S

                             PARENT'S EFFORT......

It's obvious that when a person grows from an infant to a kid, kid to a child, then child to a teenager and at-last teenager to an adult, it's pretty sure that these things just don't happen automatically, it involves our parent's effort. The very small things done by the parent's for their child, it counts under the well-being and the development of their child. For a child both father and mother are equally important and yes !! no on can take the parent's place in their child's life. To be honest what parent's do for their children , no other can do this for their children in exactly the same way what the parent's do for their children, with all their love, care and affection.

Parent's are the one who sacrifice all their dreams, only for their children so that their children reach their goal and live their dream life. Sometimes even the children doesn't get to know, like what their  parent's have sacrificed because of them, which I feel is very wrong. It's very important to know under what circumstances our parent's try to provide us all the available resources and comfort to their highest possible limit they can. So yes, it's our job to understand our parent's feeling and even help them in living their dream as well. 

Remember parent's are the one who teach us to talk, who hold our hands and help us to take our first step of our life, who even teach us to read and write, so it's our duty to support them during their old-age and be their lucky supportive stick for their shaking hands, because this all matters when we turn back and think about our childhood days, as what they have done for us is simply very great, as their love and care for their children is such a feeling which cannot be expressed, but only can be felt. So it's our responsibility that we listen to our parent's, because what they suggest for us will always be good and precise as far as our life is concerned.

During our childhood our parent's do all the possible things for us and they see to that we are comfortable, with all the things. So during our parent's old-age it's our duty that we provide with all the comfort things and provide them with all the necessary things and even spend our time with them, because leaving everything aside, it's only our presence that will make them happy the most.

THANK YOU...........

QUALITY OF LIFE MATTERS !!

         QUALITY OF LIFE MATTERS !!

Yes !! of-course quality of life matters to all of us, because this is our life and life is important for us the most. Life is not about having a home, car or doing parties everyday. Life is within us and not around us, so these are all ambience of our life and not the life it-self. Life is the most precious gift we have ever got, so its our job to maintain our life to the fullest. Our life is one hundred percent our responsibility and no other can take the responsibility of our life. It is we who have to decide what we have to do with our life. We should master our life, instead of life taking over the in-charge on you. Life is not about just earning money and doing the required things which are to be done, because doing this will put you into more trouble and suffering, as one having time and money with no peace of mind or health doesn't work in life. It is also very important to maintain our health on daily basis by doing all the necessary things that are needed to be done like going for a jog, doing exercise, maintaining our diet, doing meditation for at-least 15 minutes a day and all other required things. 

The best way to measure the quality of our life is to see how joyfully and peacefully we live our life with minimum stress and sufferings. This is our life, so our life should be the way we want it to be, we should also look upon setting the goal of our life and try to achieve that goal by hook or crook. At some extent we should also look at taking our self out of our busy schedule and look that we enjoy our life at the right time before its too late. It's obvious that we shouldn't take our life too seriously, because life is a play, but at the same time we should not take our life for granted. 

Its always a beautiful feeling when we experience our life to the fullest. It's very important that we meditate everyday for at-least few minutes because it gives us relief from all the mental stress and even help us in building up our concentration to some extent. Maintaining our health is one of the major task, because if we don't have our health in absolute condition, then we may not be able to enjoy our life the way we want to enjoy it, as it's a point  to think over that if we are travelling in our Rolls Royce, a car of great comfort with our back pains then our ride is going to be of great misery. 

So that's the reason that we have to see, that we maintain our health with utmost care, because if we have our health with us, then we can absolutely live a great and a beautiful life. So, yes ! it's very important to maintain all the offshoots of our life to lead a quality life and to experience our life to the fullest in all the possible dimensions....

THANK YOU........